Confused about your dharma (purpose)? Read this.

The number one reason people aren’t living their dharma is that they believe they’re confused.

More than ever, we’re exposed to different timelines: Someone is living their best life as a travel blogger in Bali, another as a mom with the cutest four-year-old, and another as an entrepreneur with two seven-figure businesses. They all sound great, and look pretty epic on social media, so we have no idea what we’re meant to do ourselves.

Back in the day, there weren’t that many options available to us. As a woman, you either became a stay-at-home mom or a nurse or a teacher. As a man, you could follow in your pop’s footsteps or go under your neighbor’s wing.

Now there are millions of possibilities, with millions more being created every day. People are Tantric life coaches and holistic interior designers. It can be pretty confusing to figure out what you want to do—and what if you choose wrong?

The thing is, there’s really no such thing as confusion. Often we feel “confused” because we haven’t fully grasped what our intuition is telling us. There is one truth, and that is eternal.

Confusion is just the blurriness that happens when you aren’t listening to it. The answers are already inside of you—your fears just aren’t letting you hear them.

We act like “confusion” is a bad thing when it’s actually a great thing. What we experience as confusion is really a process of evaluating our own truth. Confusion is a higher vibration than apathy.

It’s a sign you’re on the path of discovering your dharma.

You can’t gain clarity without first going through confusion. We often push away uncertainty, feeling guilty for not knowing exactly what we are doing, when those are actually the most pivotal moments of our lives.

Confusion is necessary before clarity because it’s in that process you find your truth.

Ride the waves of uncertainty. They’re the only path to clear waters.

Want more?

I read outloud the rest of this excerpt from my upcoming book Discover Your Dharma in this week’s Highest Self Podcast solocast episode 328 “What To Do If You’re Confused About Your Dharma!”

Tune in now on iTunes, Spotify or Soundcloud!

When you’re done with that, hop over to this 11-11 IG Live I did today answering ALL of your questions about discovering your dharma!

I discuss:

  • What is dharma
  • What to do if parents not supportive of your path
  • My personal dharma story
  • How to set boundaries
  • How to overcome confusion and move into action
  • The one question to ask yourself to figure out your dharma
  • The 9 Dharma Archetypes
  • And soul much more in this video!

Then get your hands on the book to learn more!

I’ve created epic bonuses for pre-ordering the book, from tickets to my live virtual Book Launch Workshop, to my Discover Your Dharma meditation, to materials to host your own Discover Your Dharma book club, to information to teach Discover Your Dharma to your class or team.

I’m even doing random giveaways incuding a 1:1 Dharma Coaching Session with me, free Rose Gold Goddesses memberships, Doshas + Dharma tanks and more!

These are ONLY available for those who pre-order, and it also really helps get the message out!

I can’t wait to witness the magic you create in the world when you are fully in alignment with your dharma.

With Gratitude,


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